I'm in my 30s, I guess I can still go for younger 20-25 who haven't had kids still. But as I get older, women typically have kids. I have 2. Who am I to say anything.
Kids are a part of the deal if you go down the dating route.
What is kind of annoying is when you make plans and they use their kids as the excuse for it not working. I get there's plenty of times you might have to pass on a plan because of kids. I would do it for mine. But I would seriously gauge how badly I'm needed. Scrape on the knee, nope, doctor or hospital, definitely.
The deal is put up what you can handle or willing to adjust for. Just don't do it because it's good sex or it seems like a good idea.
I'm debating staying single for some time.
No one in their 20s/30s seems to have their shit together in my area and the ones that do are taken lol.
Then if they are single, they're still getting over the ex. Can't win. So I'll just sit back and call up whoever I know I have fun with and make a time out of that. They know I want to be single so I'm not fucking around either.