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Originally Posted by SilentKnight
What do you say to the woman who finds herself in a physically abusive marriage, wants to get herself and children out of the situation...and finds a good benevolent man willing to help her take the abuser out of the picture.
My wife was in this scenario 25 years ago.
You're an asshole...with a very narrow view of life.
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Hey I am happy your wife got out of that situation but she married the dude in the first place, right? She didn't see the signs he was abusive before? He just suddenly, mysteriously SNAPPED and became abusive out of nowhere? Doubtful.
I am sorry your wife went through that but where is her responsibility for marrying that asshole in the first place? And while you stepped up to the plate what about that abusive asshole who is still, legally, their father? Does he have visitation rights? Is he still abusive? Are you happy that YOU have to deal with all that baggage and fallout from her past mistakes?
Not an asshole. Just saying some of us would not want to deal with ANY of that shit. You did so good for you and your family but that's not for everyone.