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Originally Posted by Zuzana Designs
Let's invite some!
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with all due respect it's not like gfy is some kind of secret, quite a few cammers I know lurk here. so why they don't join?
cam is fun hopefully for most, most of the time and lucrative. but it also takes a lot of mental work. y'all who don't deal with new cam clients don't understand it's tough work. bored female-haters/"alphas"/incels who just want to hurt you/try to throw you off your game and even if it takes 3 minutes to weed them out, that's 3 minutes of negativity to brush off. how many times a day if you're still trying to build a client list and respond to every new client request/chat room patron? some people actually take time out of their day to try to ruin ours cuz they resent us for whatever reason they have justified
new cammers are some of the most courageous women I have ever met
one of the reasons I have taken on maybe 3 new dudes in the 5 past years, I'm good with my crew I've built over the years (a decade, fuck I am old and still, have clients who celebrated my uni grad with me back in the day) and have no time or patience for screening when I can just relax and spend time with the people I actually enjoy and who are interesting and kind and wonderful to me.
if the most important question you have is whether I'm shaved we are probably not compatible. but that is our work, and we're often devalued outside our spheres we have created for ourselves
take a look at some of the threads on the main page here...is there a lot that would make a performer feel respected or valued here? as a cammer or as a female in sex work?
I'm both but I'm not here as either. here to fuck around, post my tracks and every now and then buck up on a quality biz/person with whom to collab. I certainly would not be here to keep up on our end of the cam biz
cammers really aren't on forums that much anymore anyway, we have a zillion private groups
to expect our aspect(s) of the industry to flock to a space where we aren't even valued a lot of the time? pretty unrealistic