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Originally Posted by NALEM
Without the additional negative influence over her (the street boyfriend), she is likely to enter rehab
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I've written this before but feel it bears repeating, you have no idea what it is like to be a woman on the streets. neither do I first hand but I have absolutely worked with far more women in those circumstances than you and coming like superman swooping in with "heya, know you don't know anything about me but trust me" will not work. your inability to recognize that annoys me because you're blaming her for your inability to speak to her in a mode of understanding relevant to her
I gave you all my contact deets (skype, phone, email) in the last thread about her circumstances as someone who has successfully assisted getting peeps into rehab and never heard a peep from you so how interested were/are you really?
your approach is often a good way to get killed. her I mean if she trusted the wrong dude. it's not like she has a bunch of resources to make sound choices, do a background check on you or these other strangers who just decided to accost her one day with a promise of a brand new day
your life isn't in jeopardy here and you won't even try to reach her mind but she's supposed to trust you. ok....
this bf, to her he may be a protector or a neg influence or both and what you see as a hindrance to her health is actually prob her holding on to some semblance of humanity. you think she wants to get well leaving someone she may care about behind, someone who may have protected her from the worst of what happens to homeless women?
even this whole "accept treatment on my terms or nothing" is fucked up, that's not how peeps with genuine care and concern operate. if people cared they would pay for his treatment as well, in a separate facility. so she could focus on her and let the dude do his own work as he may or may not choose to do. point is even if he drops out she'll still be in the door. why I even need to explain this (again) is just...yeah
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Originally Posted by King Mark
Unfortunately I've seen so much of this within the past 6 years. Our next update will likely be fentanyl related.
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really, really hope not