Originally Posted by NatalieMojoHost

It looks like you know what you're looking for: Hot, down-to-earth, self-sufficient, independently wealthy... so my next big question is "Are you bringing the same to the table?" I mean, it's a great idea to stop focusing on finding the perfect mate and focus on being the perfect mate.

The reality of the situation is this - You either get very hot women who have and spend a ton of time and money to take care of themselves (and not enough to earn their own living) or you get women who have their shit together and that are financially well-off based on their work/business but spend little time on being sexy/hot in the male version of the epithet. Do you see the problem here? The only real way to put those 2 and 2 together is hooking up with fitness instructors (business+looks combined), but in all honesty, they're rarely rich and even more rarely interested in someone who won't provide for them.

*Please regard this entire post as generalizations that don't rule out the existence of exceptions to these statements.