nextomic

I'm looking for a bit of GFY wisdom. I am not a developer, just the guy that needs to buy the right things and know just enough to hire a developer.

So what I am trying to decide on is a CMS for adult paysites that is robust, relatively easy to use, and has decent features built in or easily integrated. Been looking at ElevatedX and KVS.

I am looking for:
Good security (videos and site)
Simplicity in content management
Easily editable templates
Permissions by content and pages for 2 levels of member subscription (standard & premium)
NATS integration
Video encoding
Token payment system for tipping models

I also need an e-commerce solution integrated into our sites.

For ElevatedX I like that it has some features such as VOD built in. I don't like that the back end seems to have a steeper learning curve, and it doesn't seem to support using a CDN or multiple servers. For KVS I like that the back end is a bit more user friendly, and it has built in token payment system.

I have been having sites built in Wordpress but not super happy going that route again.

What do you all think? I've read through the forums about this stuff but most relevant posts are from years ago...