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^^^lol, true say =)
think Ryu has prob the best advice re planting seeds
before I moved I just went down to the street to the gorgeous man I'd been innocently flirting with for over a year but hadn't hit yet as I was trying to save a relationship on life support. then that plug got pulled. we were together for 15 years and he was the only person I'd ever loved in 'that' way
think I stayed long enough to fall out of love so when we quit I moved on more easily than normal probably. just a guess, all this is new to me. I had never been in a capital R relationship before my soon to be ex husband, just wasn't interested
I'm far more batshit than he (new dude-he's almost obnoxiously well-balanced) but access to wicked sex problem solved. and he's still just an hour and half drive away now that I'm out of the city. really trying to maintain mental distance and be clear with him about that as I am NOT up for a relationship, but god damn he's fun. next visit on Sunday
is picking people up online for hook-ups actually effective? not asking for myself, last thing I want is to do more stuff online, just genuinely curious
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