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Originally Posted by JOH
December 15th, I am trying to cope during the Holidays how can others deal with this tragedy. Still waiting for him to call to hear his voice that will never come. Sorry to Vent!
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I feel for you. My dad passed a year ago and I feel his loss every day. At times I feel him around but you'll never forget only cope with it. That's the sad truth about life in that few of us understand that we're not immortal nor think about that one day we'll all die and what will we make of our life now.
Best way is to live a life that your dad would be proud of as well as you. Stick to the good memories and write off the bad ones as lessons. Finally be thankful that at least when he passed you were on good terms and that you let him know how much you did love him and all he did. You don't want regret to be apart of your grieving process.
I loved my dad as well - spent the last few days with him along with my family and he enjoyed being with his grandkids. That's how I am at peace though same as you - miss not hearing from him - his advice - humor and discussions.