Make a phpfile, and link to that file instead of your affiliate link
In that PHPfile, you do a 301 redirect
So yourdomain.com/redir/dating-partnername.php -> sends the users to
https://yourpartner.com/aff?=adv12345234
So if your partner screws you over, you can change the affiliate link everywhere, by just changing the URL in your file
Details
https://www.systutorials.com/permane...tp-301-in-php/
That way you can track who follows your link and where it came from