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Old 06-03-2021, 09:06 AM  
sarettah
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Originally Posted by Scott McD View Post
Yep it sure does.

I like a drink, and sure can get drunk (only every so often)....but it's definitely a social thing rather than just being a drunk.

Dad seems to wake up, then bars here open at 11am so, more often than not that's him out for the day/night. Gets home. Sleeps. Then repeat.

Meanwhile the cat which let's face it, cats are easy to care for....all they ask is food, water, and a little attention.

The fact she wasn't getting that just wasn't on. So already i have noticed a change in her behaviour. The purring sound is just, well for a cat owner that's all you want to hear.

I shouldn't have to worry or wonder if my cat (was my mums cat until she passed) has been fed. But that's exactly what was happening. Not good enough and unacceptable.

My dad won't change his ways so he can drink himself into whatever state he wants now. He's always been a heavy drinker even before mum's passing so it's not like that's what triggered it or an excuse for any if it. So.


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My mom drank herself to death at the ripe old age of 45.

I stopped drinking years ago when a friend of mine had to quit. Never was a real heavy drinker but quit so he had someone to hang out with that wasn't drinking as all his other friends were very alcohol-centric.

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