Originally Posted by Colmike7

So, people keep bumping that fucking thread at the zoo, so here's the whole story:
A couple years ago, I wasn't doing so great and Sarettah messaged me about why I wasn't posting on a Slack group. He gave me some money, which most of it I didn't even ask for, and he said quite a few times that I didn't have to pay it back, or to take as long as I needed, but for me to stay active in the webmaster community. Everything was fine and he never messaged me asking for the money, ...until one day a few months ago when I replied to a thread on xxxx. Someone was asking for phone sex CRM recommendations for a coder, someone said Sarettah, and for a few reasons I thought that was an absolutely terrible choice, so I replied and recommended someone that I knew does CRMs, does it well, I used his code before on one, and I asked the person that I recommended to write me some scripts for it and I got them quick and worked the first time.. Anyways, that pissed off Sarettah and he's been attacking me randomly without messaging me anywhere about it, he sees posts that I make here and if it's positive, he gets pissed. He's getting fucking senile and it's going to end bad for him.

Originally Posted by a slack room somewhere

August 7 - 8 2021

sarettah 9:30 PM
@Colmike8 - Thanks a lot for the support on xxxx there buddy. Friends like you, ya know?

9:31
In case anyone is wondering what I am talking about. A thread where someone is looking for a developer. Softball replies: you might want to contact Sarettah who is a member here and has been programming since...well forever and he is really good.

9:32
So my good friend Mike in the next post: Contact SBJ if you need anything phone sex related. If he's available.

9:32
That's what I get I guess. How many fucking favors have I done for you?

9:33
You could have said nothing or you could have agreed with softball, but nooooooooooo, let's just reccommend someone else. You owe SBJ any favors? He done a lot of good things for you? He rccommend your wordpress skills and get you any work?

9:34
I guess I didn't either, eh asshole?

9:35
I really don't care if you recommend other folks, client would probably be flaky at best. I never asked for, requested or required pay back other than any cash stuff. But it is still an asshole move. just in my opinion of course. Remind me to return the favor.

Colmike8 9:44 PM
I just said that because he does exactly what the OP asked for. If you want the job, I won't tell SBJ, I haven't yet.

9:49
Sorry man, I didn't mean for it to sound like that. He's going to want a lot more than what they're going to want to pay, too, I know his price for a custom CMS

sarettah 9:49 PM
I could care less who you tell, that isn't the point at all and if you can't see that then you are a totally lost fucking cause. I have helped you when nobody else was helping you, I backed you the fuck up.

Colmike8 9:49 PM
*CRM

9:50
Did you want the work? He does 100% exactly what they asked for so I suggested that. That's the only reason

sarettah 9:50 PM
You could have even said something like, Yeah Sarettah would be good, also you might check out SBJ, I know he has dome phone shit before.

9:51
But nope, you just ignore the chance to help a friend out in any fucking way.

9:51
Whether I want the work or not does not matter. It is how you treat friends, which I kind of thought we were.

Colmike8 9:52 PM
We are, sorry I really didn't mean it other than I saw exactly what SBJ has done in the past and liked his code and it all worked. I'll figure out something to say

sarettah 9:55 PM
No, don't figure out anything else to say. That is not the point. I don't need the fucking work and could care less about that part. You need to figure out how to treat friends and those that have had your back.

9:57
You don't get it and probably never will and that is why you will be where you are now 10 fucking years from now.

10:00
I am done. I will probably re-read this later and want to soften it some, so take the important parts and throw away the trash. Learn how to treat the people that have helped you along the way. I pay it forward so, like I say, other than whatever cash may be involved, you owe me nothing and that is what I got so we are even on that score.

Colmike8 2:33 PM
Dude I just looked at the thread again, I just meant to post "Contact SBJ if you need anything phone sex related. If he's available." without quoting Softball. I guess I clicked quote reply and thought it was quick reply or something like on the zoo., and his was the post before.

Colmike8 3:08 PM
Edited it

Colmike8 4:32 PM
Just saying, PST said that people PMed them about recommendations, that was not me.

sarettah 6:25 PM
You don't fucking get it.

sarettah 6:38 PM
And you won't.

6:38
Please just stop replying until you have something of substance to offer me. It's time.

sarettah 6:51 PM
Just 1 last. You are trying to fix this and it cannot be fixed.

Colmike8 7:02 PM
ok.. (edited)