I'm pretty lucky, I actually like my clients. many are real friends of mine
most of them have been with me for years so no bullshit. we've been through each other's stages of life (uni graduations, new jobs, marriage, divorce, you name it) but I'm kinda reticent about new dudes as they either expect something for free or want to do paypal or some shit. total waste of time
took on one new dude I think like 7 months ago (something like that) who contacted me, booked and promptly ghosted me. never even replied to my skype messages. then contacted me a few months later to do the session at a specific time and calendar date
I showed up (taking into account the time zone diff) and quell surprise he never showed up, in my time zone or his
I asked if he wanted a refund (for the second time) and he was all 'no, just keep it'. that reply was about a month later
so I didn't refund
then he contacted me a couple months later asking to do the show. it was past the middle of the night (5 am or some shit, 4 am my time), he's only an hour ahead of me and we had already established that. I was asleep
when I woke up I offered him a video instead. BUT he wanted SPHE instead of SPH (without telling me that, all he said was SPH) so wasn't happy with what I sent
messaged me later that day asking if he could book a new show. my response was 'nope' and ignored him from thereon. 3 strikes and you're out. never blocked him, he never cb'ed. figure I earned the cash in my efforts to contact him plus the vid
I love my boyz, these fucktards tho...
VERY reticent with new guys. unless I'm feeling super-cheery I just ignore them
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