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Originally Posted by Colmike9
#1 rule is to not say a word until she's done thinking
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Agreed - it's a trap. Pressuring her into giving an answer will only push her away. Just saying, "I'll be here to listen when you're done thinking" is the best response then leave her alone. That will always be your best shot. Consider it a dominance thing - if you keep hounding her for an answer then she has the upper hand - you leave her alone then she has no alternative to come back and talk. If her goal is to leave you - then wait - when she finally says "I want to break up" she's already made her mind up and you begging is the wrong thing to do - just agree with her and say "okay thanks for letting me know". Then move on with your life.