I had a look at your site:
https://femalesbian.com/lesbian/some...irl-s7e4/1388/
If I was you but a banner above and below the vid.
It seems to be a long way down.
You may find more people click on the banner if it is next to the vid.
I suggest too that the front page needs a tiny change:
https://femalesbian.com/
I would not bother on the main page show views or time length.
I would make your thumbnails bigger, and have fewer of them per page.