Originally Posted by NatalieK

Sadly a few years ago, my mother passed, fighting for 7 years. Likewise, before she went, we had a kind of wake, a small gathering at home, so many people come to see her, while still alive.

nothing wrong with this.

When we have funerals, those who have passed away, they´re not there, maybe in spirit, we hope, as we, humans, like to feel love and care. We´re just making things right for missing those who have passed & we couldn´t be there all the time for them.

Doing this for your mum, while still alive, is lovely! And yes, wear any lovely colour, bright and beautiful, as your mother is and as i did for my mother, as she was.


Best wishes for your time with your mum, hope you have many more memories before her resting place Fidel!

Love from both me & Gary! xx