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I wrote a book in 2013 because I foresaw this happening, guys like me were getting laid so fucking much and not even going on dates, while other dudes would be taking out a new girl every other night, buying them dinner on Tinder or Plenty Of Fish, and never hearing from them again. Like $200+ dinners at Black and Blue in Vancouver, and then the women disappear. Meanwhile, I would just throw a house party and bang some random hottie in my bathtub, no date needed, and they would stick around in my circle for awhile.
Phone dating had totally revolutionized how women can screen men, you used to need some wit and courage to approach strange women in public, or some social circle that worked to introduce you to new women, but with the phone or computer, women can now screen 1000's of men and choose which ones they want to talk to, which has also created a whole niche of ways women can survive(and thrive!) in expensive urban areas. It is a trade off between the serendipity of going out into the world and seeing who you can meet, versus the tactical use of the phone to have the canned hunt. Simple as loading up a website to see who is willing to date.
One of my friends, she would dine out 4-5 nights a week with a new guy from the internet, and maybe a second date if the guy was lucky, but her entire schtick was to meet up with a guy, talk about her candlemaking business, get a free dinner, then go and meet up with her other friends. She'd go out with all these guys with no intention of romance, but would lead them on to get free gifts, dinners, and sell candles. She was making bank! This was back in like 2009-2012, and I knew this was about to completely fucking change dating as it worked previously. Like a monumental shift in male-female relationships.
And then came OnlyFans...
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