Also if you want a debate:
What defines the individuality of an individual (eg: a feminist) when this person defines him or herself has a part of a group (let's say as a feminist or as a woman)?
If someone does something bad to someone else, but you belong to same category as the victim (a category that matters to you) is it done to you too ?
(We call then NPC for a reason: they are like the others)
I am saying that because it could explain fake accusations while these persons probably don't think they lie. Then you can add a second line of defense ("anyway we are living in a patriarchal society bla bla", "you were so unfair with us, that everything is allowed", "we are living in a rape culture, how is it fair" ?) to motivate any arrangements with the reality.
Eg:
George Floyd has been killed, you were not killed, are you a victim yourself because you belong to a similar category? (Black people, outcasts, targets of the police).
Because for me, i look more or less like Derek Chauvin, so if one guy that looks like me is put in jail for political reasons, of course, i feel like i am a victim myself.
Of course, my individualistic part (quite strong in me), tells me that this is BS and that Derek Chauvin absolutely don't want to be associated with me 🙄
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