Originally Posted by VikingMan

She is messing up her freshman year. I am pushing 50. I wonder if I am playing with fire. Told her we would need to sign a contract. She wants me to set a curfew, assign chores, etc. Not sure of the extent of the abuse she suffered from her parents but she does tell me therewas "18 years of damage". She is cute!
I'm thinking about just not even hanging out with her maybe meeting her in public only and trying to help her. Not sure exactly what age I grew a conscience but I don't think it would be appropriate for me to paddle her which she says she wants me to do as a disciplinary measure.

Thoughts?