check out X Theme
use it on a side project. it's updated frequently and you can do pretty much whatever you want with it, without a whole bunch of task specific plugins
only thing that annoys me is that 'wordpress bakery' that gets installed with the theme, but easy to switch to classic editor. I'm not sure if removing bakery would fuck with the theme so leave it be, and some peeps seem to prefer it
another that seems to be highly customizable and popular is Divi, but never used it myself
if you run across a site you like check the theme with
https://whatwpthemeisthat.com/ or something similar
good luck
