Originally Posted by JesseQuinn

we all have issues, you can help yourself by being less naive and researching people more before giving them money

the suggestion from someone I can't recall rings true here. you thinking about hiring someone off a board whom you don't know? post a thread about 'anyone have recs for [insert name here]'?

still do your research, but a good start. had you done so we coulda warned you

and never stop being optimistic. just be smart about it. also work on communication


think I get why you don't want to post screencaps yet, the disputes aren't closed until the other party has a chance to dispute pp's decision, right? just guessing, never been in a pp dispute but if anything like fighting a friendly fraud cb through a MID platform that's how it works

since he can't produce proof of work delivered he's as dead in the water as his plan for your site to compete with chaturbate et al. just remember to stay calm if shit stain (excellent term OHL, as CS comes running) replies

in my last PM a couple hours ago the offer still stands, we're a salty bunch but do care about people here

good luck with the disputes. show me proof of the process either way it goes and I'll stand by my offer of help for you as a performer/content producer. zero charge

to make money not just for you but to take Focus up on his generous offer as well. which you would be crazy to turn down. he's not asking for a penny either, just that you invest in quality hosting and CMS etc so he can assist you with set up or whatever

you can do more than one thing in adult, kinda same for life in general. goal is to make money, right?


keep us posted