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Well, I've done plenty of searching on Google and, for example:

https://www.google.com/search?q=How+...sted+by+a+girl

How can I ever compete with any of these huge sites with big ranks? Like my shit would be on page 30, if that. Also, who even reads? Video content seems king these days, especially if you can get other YouTubers or Tiktokers to engage. I haven't really dove into TikTok dating advice yet, I might go down that rabbit hole tonight exploring TikTok's dating hashtags and influencers and see what are the hot topics. The whole "ick" thing was massively popular last I checked! Still need to figure out how I am going to get money to afford dinner tonight without having to stand on the side of the highway with a "0 food need help" cardboard sign. Yes, I know, totally pathetic, but it is what it is.

But shorts on YouTube, TikTok, maybe a subreddit if Reddit doesn't figure out who I am. (I'm on a list the admins have and as soon as they figure out I use Reddit, my accounts are perma-banned.)

Doomerism and Tate-ism are the things I find that people engage with the most.

https://x.com/datepsych/status/1875258627369718220

It is such a hot topic and videos, by far, get the most engagement. I feel like writing articles for a blog would be the least likely to find an audience while some sort of interviews, AI scenario videos with voice overs, or react videos where I discuss how people are feeling about modern dating might work.

https://x.com/mamasathome_/status/1868417190363640126

I've been researching this for awhile, and there are big dating accounts like:

https://x.com/guideforlovers

and they sell courses here:

https://guideforlovers.gumroad.com/l/submissionguide

But something about this seems so inauthentic and scammy, I can't put my finger on it, maybe because there isn't a "face" behind this and it seems like it is all just designed to take people's money and regurgitate "redpill" stuff wrapped under a different mask. The tweets all seem designed to sell courses and not offer organic advice. Again, I could be wrong and this could just be what great copy looks like and I don't see it for what it is.



^^^^ Ewwww. The idea that women lose value after 28 is such a gross take. Women can be even more valuable AND attractive in their 30's with life experience than they are as doe-eyed 20 year olds with zero life experience. So much of modern dating shits on women who aren't in their prime of their youth and shits on men who aren't 6+ feet tall millionaires.

I don't want to be reselling The Red Pill type content, none of my shit aligns with that as I don't practice it in real life. My own "dating brand" is something different, and I feel like it could actually really help people. Now to distill all of my experiences, thoughts, and theories into something palpable... I have been thinking of a new term to use to describe it, like a "synergyship" or something.

Modern dating is such a mess of shallow hookups and toxic societal expectations that it’s no wonder so many people feel lost. My take? fuck how we've been programmed into accepting "situationships" and the forced, outdated mold of traditional relationships that boomerism pushes through Hallmark movie deception. What I’m about is something I'd like to call synergyships. These aren’t about control or rules; they’re about mutual respect, shared goals, and genuinely wanting to see each other happy and thriving.

Dating isn’t a game of manipulation or trying to make someone fit your ideal, that's The Red Pill. It’s about asking the real questions in life:

Can we build something meaningful together, something that produces happy, healthy kids and a solid co-parenting partnership? That’s the end goal, right? A family that works and can adapt to whatever happens. This means being a good role model for your kids and finding a partner who’s got the same vision. Attraction fades, but imprinted values are carved in stone.

In a "synergyship" there’s no leash. You’re not her boss, and she’s not yours. Settra does not serve! Instead, there’s this natural flow where you both drift toward each other because you want to. Not because society told you to, or because you’ve boxed yourselves into some rigid relationship label. So many of these "dating influencers" and "alpha dads" and shit in the "manosphere" do everything for the appearances of those trad roles. The whole "trad wife" and "cottagecore" type shit aligns itself with these outdated ideals.

Good example of someone burned by their traditional ideals:
https://x.com/Iberianamerica/status/1875316066156736960

But to even get to a higher level of enlightenment, the base camp starts with radical self-acceptance. Know who you are, flaws and all, and totally own it. People don’t change unless they want to, so people need to stop chasing the fantasy of “fixing” someone. The best relationships are about two people being their authentic selves, warts and all, aligned in purpose and vision. That’s how you break free of the societal BS and build something real, a connection that lasts because it’s based on mutual respect and shared purpose.

That’s synergy. That’s the vibe.

But how do I SELL the vibe that has worked so well for me?

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