I used to do ghost hunting, you know, paranormal investigations, and I had a lot of fun and learned a lot on like 40+ investigations.
There was a trans person on the team, and you know what? They were my friend, and I didn't care they were trans.
In fact, I want everyone to live their best life. I love humanity and often the online world wants us all to believe we're all NPCs and believe the same rigid beliefs, but like myself, I can simultaneously respect and be friends with people of WHATEVER identity, but I can also say "women don't have a penis" and be 100% honest in my belief systems.
I mean, let's say tonight, someone texts me and says "Hey yo broke ass, I'll pay for your cab to downtown Kelowna I have a babe for you to meet, Selina" and I go and meet her and she's fine and the conversation is great, and we go back to her hotel room and make out and it's steamy... and I pull her panties off and there's a big ol' COCK staring at me!
That's false fucking advertising. The whole point of womanhood and the female manifestation is the domain of the vagina and the gateway to reproduction. Not all women have to reproduce to be women, but the parts need to be real. Like, the dick, it would completely ruin everything else. It would be like if you saw a 69 Dodge Charger with all of the 440 Six Pack decals, and a 4 speed manual on the floor. But when you get inside, you find out it is electric and the steering wheel is not connected via a mechanical connection and the car drives itself by computer and sounds like a rumbling 440 with 3 two-barrel carbs and it has so much torque and power rollin' down the street, but you can't smell exhaust fumes and gas and the 4 speed doesn't shift because it's not connected mechanically to anything and turning the steering wheel has zero feel for the road. It's not the real thing. It is all a carefully crafted illusion. A mimic.
There is a massive dissatisfaction with everything in life that is supposed to be organic and real, but turns out to be inauthentic. Dating apps, trans, politics, celebrities, many canned experiences.
Trans people should be free to live their lives however they want, but I should be allowed to just say that a man in a dress can't be a woman. That's just a basic authentic reality. Just like how The Undertaker isn't a real life deadman collecting wrestler's souls and burying people alive. But in some situations we can accept their character they are playing. But in some situations, we can't accept that character.
Imagine if The Undertaker was checking in at the airport for a flight to a show, and some newbie clerk at the airport thought there was a problem with the boarding pass, do you think society would accept The Undertaker choke slamming that lady right there and then tombstone piledriving her right onto the concrete floor for holding him up on his flight? Most likely not.
It is not bigoted to say simple things like "a woman doesn't have a penis" and this is a hill I will die on.