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You didn't mention what one had to do with the other, but I'm assuming it has something to do with she didn't like you working on your car.
First thing, if you really want to settle things you need to listen. Sit down, take notes if necessary. Let her keep going.
Most people simply want to be heard.
Don't get hot. Even ask politely, "What is it about this that specifically bothers you?"
Show you care.
After she's gotten everything out of her system. Try to meet her halfway. Offer a solution. I've known people to just drop it once they've gotten it out of their system. Some even apologize. And if she does, let her know you're there for her if she needs anything.
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