that hits close to home and I'm sorry for your loss.
My sister who is truly the best, is fighting for her life as I type this, she has the single most radical type of breast cancer and her chances are .... not good.
I too have been finding lumps over the past year and have already had 6 removed and who knows how many to come ... the medical bills are seriously killing me - its a screwed up thing *sigh*
Although I do well on my own in this biz (since 97), I think its time I have to whore myself out just to keep a roof over my childrens heads.
war on cancer
war on pharmacudical corps
war on insurance corps!!
sorry for the rant and again .. sorry for your loss