How old is your kid? That might affect your final decision.... Either way, it's generally not a good idea so try to stay in a relationship if there's a lot of strife, even if there is a kid involved. I'm not into promoting broken families, but it's worse for a child to see fighting and strife than it is for them to adapt to their parents being seperate.. If you think you can work it out, talk to her, get counselling, etc. If not, see where you stand legally regarding the child..but DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE until you have SOMETHING signed from her GUARANTEEING You access to the child. I would also suggest perhaps if you're in a situation to do so, seeing if you can have primary custody and daily care of the child.. Women who like to go out and cheat like that are the ones that tend to dump the kids off at sitters so they can have whoopie. And the last thing you need is for the kid to see a guy coming and going all the time. Best of luck man. You're a dork, but nobody deserves to deal with that kind of bullshit.
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