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Originally posted by Furious_Female
I just don't think partying, without your spouse is good at any time. Having time away from each other is healthy, doing your own hobbies etc... but bars, clubs, parties etc.. That's for single people. People might disagree and that's fine... what works for one person/couple, doesn't always work for the next and if one person in a relationship doesn't like it, it will never work.
Flame away... that's just my opinion.
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FF in a lot of ways i agree with you.
this is my situation. my wife doesnt work a 9-5 - shes basically a homemaker.
she does have grandmas and other people she can push the baby off on if necessary. during the day while im doing my thing lining shit up, shes out hanging out with her friends doing whatever. she seems to think that the time that im working is my "me time". now dont get me wrong, i enjoy the shit i do, but work is not my life.
i set aside plenty of time with my family - we do a lot of shit together.
however - me going out and hanging with the boys is not a daily or even weekly occurence. its like once in a blue moon i get to go out and unwind. she gets on a fucking power trip because she thinks that i have all this time to myself doing what i like doing. its a simple misunderstanding that she doesnt have the concept of because, again, she doesnt know any different.