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Old 10-04-2003, 12:22 PM  
sexeducation
So Fucking Banned
 
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Calgary - Alberta - Canada
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Originally posted by Carrie
A woman who is under 25 and thinks like this is normal. You guys can't imagine the bullshit that society piles onto girls as they're growing up. It's sad, but true... they ALL come out insecure, unsure of what they want or what they're supposed to be - on one hand they've got society telling them to "be good little girls", settle down and have a family. On the other hand they've got society telling them they're young, they should go out and be dating and experiencing life and having a good time.
sexual hypocrisy

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On one hand society says if you so much as think about sex, you're a slut, that's "dirty", "naughty". Then on the other hand society bombards us with suggestive advertisements, television shows, music videos all encouraging us to be sexual and if you don't, you're a "nerd" or a "prude".
yep - more sexual hypocrisy

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On one hand society preaches "be yourself", "grrrl power" and all of that crap, and on the other hand society throws 100-pound supermodels in our faces and tells us if we're not absolutely perfect, then we're fat, ugly, and unworthy of attention - much less love.
YEP ...

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By the time you get out of high school your head is seriously fucked up if you're female.
absolutely ...


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From my own experience and what I've seen, I'm willing to stand up and say that no man should even consider a long-term commitment with a woman unless she's at least 26 years old. Before that, her head is just all over the place. She might *think* that she wants to settle down and that she's in love, but the fact that her friends are still going out dating and partying is going to kill her with jealousy and feelings of self-doubt that she gave up her life too early. Then she gets to be 25 and all hell breaks loose, because that 25th birthday means that 30 is just around the corner. She turns around and looks at her life and everything she hasn't done yet - and look out. If she's strapped down in a marriage it's going to take hell and high water to keep her in it, because she's facing the fact that this is THE REST OF HER LIFE and look at all the shit she's missed out on and will never get to do.

The closer they get to 30 the more stable they are, because it stops being such a big deal and the realization that it's coming makes them reevaluate and start getting things in order. They start being more comfortable with themselves, they learn how to say "fuck it", they realize that the world really doesn't revolve around their three best friends and what everyone else thinks, and they finally start to settle down and get serious.

Once they're comfortable with *themselves*, then and only then can they focus on a relationship and sharing with another person.

Sometimes I feel sorry for guys who are really in love with a girl that's under 25. But then I come to GFY and see the "all women are whores, bitches, sluts and c*u*nts" and I don't feel sorry anymore.
All the women on GFY are not bitches & whores.
Just because you do "porn" does not make you a bitch or a whore.
IT'S YOUR BODY - IT'S YOUR RIGHT.
male or female is irrelevant.
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