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Originally posted by stocktrader23
Your post proves you are as completely fucked in the head as the next woman.
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Actually I'm not saying that couples shouldn't have their own personal freedoms and do things on their own or with friends. Couples shouldn't be together every single second. What I was saying is, I don't think bars and clubs are a healthy outlet for "fun" when you are married. Everyone has to agree, people only go to bars/clubs to get wasted and/or laid... very very few actually go just to dance or for music. You can say naa I just go to chill with my friends... Ok... how much conversation is being heard and understood when you're smashed off your ass or someone else is and it's so loud you can't even hear yourself. I just personally think it's the wrong atmosphere for a married person to be in, because it's something for single people and/or people looking to get laid. Maybe at a small town bar, there's casual drinks and a bunch of dudes hanging out... but most bars/clubs are wall to wall meat markets. If you want to get wasted, you can do that just about anywhere... why does it have to be where you are pressed up against people in every direction? That might be acceptable to SOME people, but not to everyone... It's not the same thing as golfing with buddies or shopping with girlfriends. That's my opinion on it.
I may be insecure or have other convictions about things... but I am just more "old fashioned" than most modern relationships. If you talk to couples who have been married for 20, 30, 40 or more years and are happy... chances are, they won't say it's that way because my wife or my husband went to bars/clubs once in awhile.