10-05-2003, 02:52 PM
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Originally posted by Furious_Female
I don't think males are capable of having female friends, unless they are gay of course. Because at any given time, if sex came up... you'd never hear the male saying "I don't want it to ruin our friendship". Women that have men friends, are usually naive to the fact, that these so called "friends", really want to take advantage of any opportunity to fuck them.
I've been through this with male "friends"... I learned the hard way. Men like to take advantage of women when they are vulnerable, i.e. having problems with their boyfriend. The girl is naive and actually believes the male friend will be informative and caring about her problems and give sound advice, but the only advice the man gives her is "Dump him, he's a fuckin loser. You deserve someone better" - which sets an opportunity for him to move in and make a move. Male friends will only talk smack about your man and try to get you to dump him. A female friend in most cases wouldn't do this. A female friend will give you advice and comfort to make YOU happy, not to make them happy.
It happens on every TV show... all the guys and gals that are just friends, end up fucking and getting married in the 8th season. I wouldn't be surprised if Grace ends up marrying Will and he's gay!
I used to think and a lot of women still do think, guys can just be your friends. That's bullshit... they only want to get you in bed, so they use cowardly and manipulative tactics to do that. It's all a farce... I don't care what anyone says, it is.
Think about some elderly married couples you know or happily married couples. Does the husband have a or many female friends, that they go to dinner and movies with, without their wives? I can't think of ANY happily married couple, that does that sort of thing. Same goes with wives... You won't see them out with their male "friends", hanging out like they would with girlfriends... because it just doesn't work that way. It's not right and it's not healthy.
Then if you are friends with the opposite sex and one of you starts a new relationship, there's always going to be a problem in your new relationship. I'd be pretty pissed if a girl called my man in the middle of the night crying and needing advice or whatever... but I wouldn't be pissed if it was a male friend calling.
These are just my personal feelings... others may not agree but from experience and observing, it's clearly a disaster waiting to happen.
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