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Originally posted by Furious_Female
Well thinking about something once or twice is a lot different than thinking about it the whole time while you are "friends" with someone. And there's a difference between friends and aquaintances... when I say friend, I mean someone you can confide in and things along that line. If you continue having sexual thoughts about them during the friendship, then it's not just friendship to you... because you fantasize about it being more intimate than just innocent conversation.
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You make it sound like thinking about sex also means you want to have sex with that person. That's not the case though. It's just casual fantasies, the kind you have a few dozen times a day.
The friendship part, however, means you'll support the person when they need it, won't fuck them when they're down or drunk and listen to things they wanna talk about. Not because they supply good material for fantasies, but simply because you care.