wondertracy,
They're actually a calm crowd tonight - the vicious ones aren't out yet. Anyhow, you are asking on a board for someone to marry you.....of all boards to choose......in retrospect (or perhaps after visiting here more often you'll agree) this was the wrong place to come - whether it was your first choice or your last resort.
Come on.......everyone knows that these men are the hottest, most fit, studs on the net.....they just choose to stay behind the scenes because they would continuously be trampled by women if they were to be in the public eye.
So don't take offense by them........they're normally good boys - just take them with a grain of salt.