Neriah,
It is no disrespect to your current designer, but I do agree you should start again. Take a look at the portfolios and prices of the designers below.
The added expense is worth it in better conversion rates.
Designers
www.aaaadultdesign.com
www.webinc.com
www.bluedesignstudio.com
www.dickmansdesign.com
www.WyldeSites.com
uhmmm... ps. cinquante!