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Originally posted by tony404
Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol
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i would say the intial attraction; both men and women are equally visual creatures. take it a step further now and a man will stay with a good looking, inarticulate, unintelligent woman just because she is good looking arm piece that he can show off to his friends. put most women in that situation and they guy would be out the door in 3 months tops.
women are less visual creatures overall. men are not. women grow out of the looks phase (for the most part) at a certain age. men dont. women look to the future on what their partner can provide. its within most mens natures to provide so their focus shifts to how expensive and big is my next toy going to be and who can i bang tonight. needless to say, men dont really change much from the time they are 14-15 until they reach an older age. whereas most women (not all) and their priorities and responsibilites change almost immediately. show me a woman who still plays with barbies at 30 and i will show you 10 men who still play games and concern themselves with beefing up their cars. kinda scary if you sit back and think about which species true evolves faster; and men dominate this world....yikes