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can't it be both?
Im not going to make the first move, or ANY move for that materr unless I'm attracted to the girl's looks. However, I'm not going to spend more than 10 minutes with her if I don't like her personality. Of course, the longer it goes, 1 date, casual dating, serous relationship.. the more I have to dig her personality, but at that point looks have become irrelivant.
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