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Originally posted by Cassie
i would say the intial attraction; both men and women are equally visual creatures. take it a step further now and a man will stay with a good looking, inarticulate, unintelligent woman just because she is good looking arm piece that he can show off to his friends. put most women in that situation and they guy would be out the door in 3 months tops.
women are less visual creatures overall. men are not. women grow out of the looks phase (for the most part) at a certain age. men dont. women look to the future on what their partner can provide. its within most mens natures to provide so their focus shifts to how expensive and big is my next toy going to be and who can i bang tonight. needless to say, men dont really change much from the time they are 14-15 until they reach an older age. whereas most women (not all) and their priorities and responsibilites change almost immediately. show me a woman who still plays with barbies at 30 and i will show you 10 men who still play games and concern themselves with beefing up their cars. kinda scary if you sit back and think about which species true evolves faster; and men dominate this world....yikes
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You are soooooo right
You nailed it. I would like to add, that most men are selfish until they hit an age of maturity and care about more than what they can gain for themselves. It takes a long time for a lot of men, to want to share with someone they love and build a future WITH someone. Most women want that immediately and end up wasting years and years with guys, that may never be on the same level as them. So that's why women won't waste time with guys just because they are attractive. Women are all about "where is this going?" as opposed to looking good here and now.
