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Originally posted by Furious_Female
You are soooooo right  You nailed it. I would like to add, that most men are selfish until they hit an age of maturity and care about more than what they can gain for themselves. It takes a long time for a lot of men, to want to share with someone they love and build a future WITH someone. Most women want that immediately and end up wasting years and years with guys, that may never be on the same level as them. So that's why women won't waste time with guys just because they are attractive. Women are all about "where is this going?" as opposed to looking good here and now. 
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you are 100% correct with the wasted years! when i was 19 i dated this guy who was 25. we spent 6 years together to only end up with him marrying someone else. i look back now and breaking up was a good decision. i put every ounce of my being into him and i mean every ounce. they break up wasnt as difficult as i thought it would be but still you put alot of time into someone hoping one day it will go somewhere. i dated another guy after that for 2-3 years and that went nowhere.
now i have no desire to get married and you know what i get? looked at funny cause i dont want to do what society deems is right. i wont date the good looking guy cause for the most part he is as stupid as a stump. the next guy i date wont be that great looking to others BUT he will have the qualities i want, ambition and personality, which will make him the best looking man in the world to me regardless of what others think.