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Originally posted by punkworld
You really are obsessed with ambition, aren't you?
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Ambition leads to success.
Ambition also indicates future plans. Women want security and stability now and in the future. Not just financially, but emotionally as well. That won't happen with a guy who just wants to take it one day at a time. Even if your dreams are a lightyear away, as long as you are working towards them and lay your plans out... that's all most women want. Most women can be appeased by a game plan, but we also want to see it in action, to know we're headed in the right direction and if we're not, we want to be set free so we can find that with someone else. Most women aren't into settling for a movie and sex with a hot guy for years and years at a time.
I don't know why anyone, men or women would want to waste time and effort, on something that is basically "we'll see what happens". That's very disappointing and draining, because if anything, a relationship should be on steady ground, not up in the air.