Since I was one of the ones who posted in that thread- allow me to clarify. I feel I can safely speak for other females when I say that finding a man to have sex with, see naked, show me his pecker, etc, is not really that difficult. Generally, all we need to do is ask. It's finding one that we
want to do all those things with, that's the tricky part.
They are few and far between. ;-}