Hey EB,
I think you have asked this question in the wrong forum. As far as I've seen, most Internet porn Industry folk who attend shows have a few girl/boy friends as well as a significant other(s) at home. No moral crying game here...oh my god not cheating...kids? Tell her to get along in life as best she can, fuck who she wants to and try not to get kilt.
...so is this one of those "My Friend" stories that turns out to be about you?" C'mon you can tell us.
Btw. I can't wait to see you and Danny in Vegas. If you play your cards right, talk nicely to me, buy me drinks, I'll probably nail ya, but your kids/husband should stay at home...
