Surprisingly my friend's are pretty cool about this stuff. They call me upw anting to go for a drive to another city for a roadtrip. I say I have too muchw ork to do. They never get pissy, they get dissapointed but never give me a hard time. I guess I'm lucky that way.
It actualy did get to a point where I was bugged so much I could not even pay the bills this summer. I had 0 income for a whole month. Then I dumped her and got myself back on track and getting work done. I really don't think some people understand the extent of how much work it is building sites and marketing.
I can understand that she wants me to do the xmas thing with her and her family, but she's at work right now til 6. What if her family wanted her there for 3. She'd have to say "no I can't I'm working"
I tell ya, come new years day I am sitting her down and driving this shit into her head. From the time I wake up until 10 hours later I am not to be called, not to be bugged about chores, not to have to listen to MY tv cranked wide open in the next room (then she yells at me for turning on winamp), not to hear her on the phone talking like the person is deaf on the other end. Time for some ground rules. Set the law once and for all and give her an ultimatum. Either she lays off, or she pays all the bills on her own and I move out.
The second I am making enough to warrant a lease I am leasing office space and not telling anyone where it is.
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