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I guess you could get as many different answers as there are people to answer Whit ;)
I love what I have and I couldn't imagine that I'd jeopardize it for anything. Actually I know I wouldn't.
I also think that people grow and change as time goes by and what might seem like a good idea right now becomes a tired idea without so much promise, and vice versa.
Most important thing in any relationship is communication. If you can't talk to your significant other about things, openly and candidly, then you have a problem that adding someone else into the mix sexually isn't going to fix, but will probably make worse.
I also know that most guys fantasize about seeing their girl with another chick, or doing another chick with their girl, but couldn't, wouldn't, ain't even going to contemplate their girl being with another guy, with or without them participating. And that's fine, it's just good to remember that sometimes a fantasy is best kept just that. I don't think it would be fair in a relationship for the guy to get to fuck around with another chick but not for his girl to be able to do the same.
I think it's great that people who swing are happy with it, and I respect their lifestyle choice. It's not something I find exciting, thus it's not for me.
But I will give Sherie and Tera half my sammich and some fries@!!!
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