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Originally posted by wyldblyss
My conern Heather is your low self-confidence. I'm not ripping on you but you obviously place a high value on your personal appearance and I'm not saying anything is wrong with that. But what happens if you get this done and you don't like them? I know you are going to the best surgeon in your state, but that does not guarantee you will like the end result. So what are you going to do if you hate them? Would you not feel worse because you have crossed that line and can't go back? Will you be able to handle it? You are afraid to show how they look now in case people rip on you, what if you get them done and people rip on you because they don't like them? What if the members of your site think you made a big mistake because they liked them natural and your sales go down?
I know you are going to do what you want, no one can make the decision for you, but I do know that when we "imagine" results, what they will look like etc. if it doesn't turn out as expected we can get heartbroken. While a plastic surgeon can be the best around, it doesn't mean they will be able to accomplish that image in your head you might have.....so would you just live with it? want them done again? Will you be able to afford the upkeep?
I do understand you have your heart set on this and will get them done no matter what, but please, try to prepare yourself in case you, or a lot of other people do not like the result...because in your head you might see the perky D's you once had but in reality you might end up with the fake looking "I swallowed two basketballs and they fell to my chest" look.
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Well im not sure where to start on this one. Your 100% right. You cant predict the perfect results. You can try but it never works out that way. Your doctor can only work with what you already have.
Since they will be giving me a lift then only adding a small implant, there wont be that basketball issue. THe big hard breast look, usually happens when the woman doesnt massage them they way she is supposed to afterwards.
I want to be able to look in the mirror and be happy again. If that means losing a few members then so be it. There will be others.