My grandfather was terminally ill and after much persistance simply decided to stop his dialysis and die. It was sad but noone questioned his decision as he'd perservered so much before.
Go for the surgery. If at some point after that you deteriorate and life becomes too unbearable, then consider ending it. It's too early man, things can go either way. At least give survival a shot.
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