I agree with everyone else, get a second opinion. If u do need the surgery, onlu you can decide if you are going thru with surgery. All I can say is that you have a child, think about that child, what it will be like for him to know that his dada could have been with him longer but chose not to.

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My Ex-husband SKULL-BUITRE ran off to Colombia with OUR money and screwed me after I helped him build OUR business.
He is hiding in Colombia and never paid the settlement $ from our divorce!