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All the guys that say they want or love their kids, are you willing to take EXACTLY 50% responsibility for child rearing and taking care of the kids? If you had to quit down on some hours (if you had a regular job) to help raise your kids would you do it? Or don't tell me you would expect your wife/girlfriend to quit her job to devote her life to raising the kids because you think your job is so much more important ?
I think it's unfair how husbands expect their wives to quit their job and do 99% of the child rearing duties while the men most of the time just play with their kid for a while and think that's enough. I wonder how many guys actually change diapers and help feed their babies? My friend has a baby, and her bf complained and got extremely angry for having to watch it even a day, while she raises the baby all by herself day in and day out. I don't think men can stand the crying and having to take care of it.
That's another reason why I would never have kids. I don't want to devote my life to someone else, I want to live my life for myself.
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