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Okay, I've been thru this before - on more than one occasion...
Breakups are breakups, there is no return except in EXTREME situations.
I dated a gal for a year after her divorce and she basically had only "known" one man. She felt the need, and I agreed, to explore things and know for herself that I was the right guy. Six months later it became painfully obvious I wasn't. I'd fallen in love with her and her daughter and I thought she'd fallen in love with me, but it just wasn't true. It was a very painful time for me to even think that we could get back together. The sad fact is that once you break up it is over! If she wants to sow her oats then she needs to and you need to be receptive to that and realize that this is merely a transition in your lives. Will you get back together? Probably not, but it's remotely possible.
The best thing I could recommend is that you let her go and move on. Enjoy the memories of what you had together and build upon that in your next foray in a relationship.
I'm guessing that you are young, that isn't a bad thing just mean that when one is young you have so many oportunities available and you shouldn't focus on the "right now". Shit happens and everytime shit does happen you get another oportunity to learn.
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