I'm sorry for you, man.
My girlfriend told me that she didn't love me anymore a couple of months ago.. I said "OK, honey. I'll give you 2 weeks" .. A week later, she called me and said that she wasn't sure if this was the right think to do, and that she might have done the biggest mistake of her life ++ .. I've told her loads of times in the past, that if she leaves me, she LEAVES. No "I want to be friends" crap, and that if she leaves, she can't come back.. Well.. I said to her when she called me : You know i've told you to NOT come back if you leave.. She started crying.. A few days later she called me again and wanted to meet me.. I met her, and she said that she regret her decision and wanted me back.. I said "I'm not sure, I have to think about it." .. Then suddenly, I ruled. I was in charge of the future between us, and I could make her beg me if I wanted. That was cool. But of course, I said that I wanted her back, and we've been going out for 8 months now.. But I treat her nicely, though :-)
Good luck, man!
btw, if you really want her, treat her the way she deserves, maybe a little extra, since you're an adult webmaster you have an OK income at least, so take her out, spoil her.. Say : "Can you go on a very last date with me?" .. Take her out for dinner, and maybe a movie and such.. Take a cab home, when you're at her house, give her a kiss on the forehead or on the cheak (is cheak a word?).. Don't say anything.. Just look at her, and then leave.. If you're a nice guy, you'll get her back. Definetely.
And after that final date, don't contact her.. I think she'll contact you.. Just a thought :-)
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