hey DarkJedi,
How are you man? Well, I guess these are the BIG 6 on link lists:
http://www.link-o-rama.com/ http://www.richardsrealm.com/ http://www.megapornlinks.com/ http://www.sexclearinghouse.com/ http://www.tommys-bookmarks.com/ http://www.persiankitty.com/
If you get listed on all of those, you will get a lot of visibility!
Plus, you could take a look at
http://www.thelinksmachine.com and find more link lists, if you are really looking for every traffic around
Hope that helps!
Take care,
Bruno