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Old 06-02-2004, 01:13 AM  
Evelyn
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You have no obligation to 1st girl since no promise were made.

As far as decency, telling her the truth is a moral high ground.

Who knows, she may be ok with it if she's really into you and thinks she will eventually win you over. Some girls like competion early on.

Unless she's already acting like your girlfriend and you didn't lead her to that, you shouldn't continue to lead her on by not saying anything.

If she finds out on her own while thinking she's with you, you might be in for an even bigger confrontation and/or a bunch of tears, and that would make you feel bad especially if you knew you might have been able to prevent hurt feelings.

If you don't tell a girl where you stand in the relationship early on, they will be left on their own to assume what they want.

Misunderstandings can usually be avoided when you are clear about your intentions.

Good luck!
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