I don't know what you mean by "charge" you, but if you don't comply with their terms of service, they don't have to pay you.
Realize that these companies have laws to follow in their own countries, even if you don't happen to live there. I live in the US, but do business with more than one overseas sponsor. I'm forced to play by their rules if I want to collect my money, including signing real contracts and mailing them back to Europe.
I honestly don't see how you can say "no" to their request and yet expect them to send you $5,000 in your case.
Playa is right, by the way, just cause it's a "porn company" doesn't make them any different than any other business. I'm a porn company too. I pay taxes and benefits just like any other business. Doesn't make my company substandard nor does it mean that I don't have to follow the law (in fact, I had better follow it better than most) nor that people I do business with don't have to follow them either.
This isn't hobby time, it's business plain and simple.
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